My bf and I been dating for 2 1/2 years plus have an apartment together 2 hrs away from home and we like barely ever have sex now. We used to in the beginning all the time bc I lost my virginity to him and it’s spicy in the beginning and exciting lol. But like I’m always wanting to have sex and he doesn’t... I know he’s not cheating or anything so that’s our of the question. I think it may be bc the condoms we use now hurts him and are kinda too tight so he doesn’t get much pleasure and bc his sex drive is low. But sometimes it makes me feel like I’m boring or not exciting for him. And if I even ask him he’s gonna get defensive (not bc he’s cheating) I just have to say that so nobody comes at me saying it.