Pain During Fingering

Okay so I was fooling around with my boyfriend and I was all into it. I’m a virgin so it was my real first time doing anything at all. He starts fingering me and it hurts really bad. I thought it would just go away so I didn’t say anything but it just got worst. I never did orgasm and later that day when I was peeing it stung really bad. Is that normal and want can I do to make it hurt less so I can actually enjoy myself?