How do you leave Someone you love
This might be LONG.. so I’m 18 , he’s 29. He has 6 kids from one women & I have NONE. He has his own place , & a car ( in his bm name ) , when we met he was super nice. We been together for 10 months. So he asked me to move in like the 4th month & I was scared but he begged me and assured me that he would take care of me & etc. btw this was my first time ever living with a guy!! So okay things got worst since I moved in. Ofc babymama drama but now she’s over it & we communicate. Everytime we get into an argument he tells me that she was better , how she can have kids and I can’t , how he will eat her pussy and fuck her in the bed we lay down in. He even told me if he ever went to jail she would be here with the kids and not me. He’s abusive also. He told me I would never find a guy because I can’t have an kids.. he has also cheated on me by going to dating sites everytime I’m not around. The other day I was at school he got an girl number at the corner store and was texting her on text now. He deletes messages with him and his babymama. His kids , & mother come to the house and never speak to me. ( I took care of his kids for 3 months when their mom left by myself ) I give this guy anything. When I have money it’s ( OURS ) , when he has money , it’s ( HIS ) , he’s always trying to drop me back at my grandmas when we are mad and say gtfo out my house. I tried to talk to him about privacy yesterday because his kids are always COMING in the room while I’m laying down sleeping , jumping on the bed , eating , being loud and don’t even ask to come in. He told me that he is not going to give his kids boundaries they can play wherever they want. This has become way too much for me. I’m 18 years old , this is the only guy I ever loved what do I do? Am I wrong if I leave him? Everytime I have tried to leave , he “ cries “ & tell me how he will make things right. & let’s not forget everytime he needs something he ask his babymama and I told him way too many times to Stop making her feel like you need her.... smh they were together for 11 years , so I’m his first girlfriend besides her his babymama.. what do I do??? Please help
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