I’m curious: Condom vs No Condom 🤔

Hello! 👋🏼

I’m curious as to your thoughts on sex with and without a condom. My bf of 10 months and I have always been safe when it comes to sex. We’re each other’s firsts, and I was on the pill for a month before we started dating until we hit 7 months cause I have primary dysmenorrhea (plus it’s a bonus contraceptive hehe), but I ended up switching to an IUD since the pill wasn’t helping. Now I haven’t dealt with a period since November (#bless🙏🏼).

My question is: Is there really a significant difference when it comes to sex with or without a condom? I’ve only heard that there is a biiiig difference and that’s it’s way better without one, so I’m thinking that I’m hella missing out, you know? I’d just like to know if there’s a flip side or have confirmation that’s it’s not as big of a difference but enough to notice.

My bf mentioned one day trying without a condom but since we’re both in school and I’m looking for jobs in my field we’ve just stayed extra safe for now till we get a little more steady.

What are your thoughts? 💭