Soooooo. At my house we have been battling a flea problem because of my dog. It is something that we had battled with for the last 2 months and finally bought sprays kill them and clear everything out in our home. Well Yesterday we had planned (my boyfriend and I) to Clean our our cars, sweep the house , vacuum , mop, apply the sprays (while the sprays are drying we have to leave the house for 2 hours.) so we were going to go for a walk and take the puppy to the park in the meantime.

Suddenly my boyfriends friend and his friends wife text him saying that they need his help on a project (he just met them about 6 months ago). He told them he could help. Totally left me and said he had no idea when he would be home.

Since he left me by myself , it took me twice as long to clean and spray everything and on top of that , I didn’t end up finishing till 5pm so we couldn’t re enter until 7pm. Then I took my dog to the park but to got dark fairly quickly and I felt sketched out being outside in the dark by myself. I asked him if he could come join us and he said he couldn’t, he was still helping them and then was going to have dinner with them.

I didn’t end up eating until 7:30 pm and He didn’t end up coming home until 9pm.

Im just so mad that he chose to help people he barley met vs helping me.( we have been together for 4 years now). I told him I needed his help and he still left. Am I right to be angry at him or am I overreacting?