The other day my husband and my mother got into a conversation while I was cooking dinner.

I had overheard them talking about how everyone thinks about cheating. My husband said “I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t thought about it, everyone has. But I’d never actually do it because I can’t lose her. We have something I can’t just toss away.”

Cheating has been all around me ever since I was a young girl, whether I was being cheated on, witnessing friends and family cheat, or being asked to keep the secret for them. I’ve seen and felt the pain it causes. He 100% knows my stance on it.

So naturally, this comment didn’t sit well with me. It’s been on my mind since it happened. The thought of cheating on my husband has never crossed my mind, not even once. We have a very happy and healthy relationship and we are expecting our first in March. Id have nothing to gain from it, which makes it so confusing to me. I feel like it could just be hormones but it’s got my mind racing.

Does everyone think actually about cheating and not do it?