Back story I'm Muslim...I'm a home stay mom with 2 kids that are 2 and under I dont have any family around to help or anything ( like take the kids for an hour while I can relax a bit) I breastfed too not that it matters but its alot of work it ain't easy back to back.. please dont come at me. I cant work right now.

I clean cook do everything in the house and on top of that watch the kids.. who gets up at night when they cry I do.. who sits up all night comforting them when there sick or isnt feeling good I do.. I feed bathe everything I do he says it's my full responsibility!!! Wth it takes 2 to make a baby it takes 2 raise them it's like he has no interest In being around them. He did help with the first and when we had our second u would think he would be there more but nope he stepped down.

I thought husband and wife have each other back if wife needs help husband is there..and if husband needs something wife is there ugh.

On top of that he will eat and leave his garbage on the floor or put his dirty clothes in random places..its like I'm taking care of 3 kids!!! I'm goin nutsss..I never get a break... he has the weekends off what does he do sleep in and play games all day .. what would u do??.. he said this is normal... at times I want to lay down for 20mins and he complains I cant watch them.

Seems like I'm a single mom... he works at a gas station not a good job but I dont complain.

Example: I'll be breastfeeding one baby and the other wants me or is crying cus hes hungry or needs something my husband just looks wont step up to help .. I think I'm crazy. :/ or is this not normal. My parents were different my dad worked long hours some times even 2 jobs but he came home and helped my mom with making dinner, giving us baths, playing with us being there for us. He was a great dad.