I'm 17 and pregnant. My baby is due in a few months. I live with both my mom and dad, I go back and forth. They want me to keep doing that when the baby is born, along with the father taking the baby some days. I said no because that will confuse my baby and theres no way in hell im going back and forth like that. I'm with the father and we plan on moving in together which we may do before the babys born. If not though, im thinking i just stay one place because as a child I went back and forth and it seriously messed me up. But they argue "your baby wont even remember." Yeah well if i slap your newborn they wont remember either, does it make it okay? No.