At what point do you let someone go because they won’t help themselves? My partners anxiety is out of control and they will not even make an appointment. I have asked for months. I have asked what I can do etc. I’m almost 7 months pregnant and I don’t think that they will be able to handle the demands of parenthood at all unless some sort of plan is in place for dealing with the anxiety. Of course, that’s just my opinion but at what point do you give the ultimatum?