I had my first born July 2018 and I’m pregnant again with number 2 July of 2019. I’m debating whether or not to have another baby shower. I feel like if it’s a boy there’s no need for another one but if it’s a girl I feel like it’s a different story because it’s a whole other wardrobe. I’m not throwing the shower for the gifts but they are definitely appreciated. Another part of me really wants to throw a mermaid theme (if it’s a girl) party because I didn’t get any say in the last shower (I’m a control freak I like to do things myself)