Married Christian women: Did you wait until marriage to have sex?

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I don’t get waiting till marriage to have sex. If I’m on my honeymoon, I wanna have some amazing pleasurable sex, not hurting or nervous sex 🤷‍♀️

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I think if when you feel ready and you want to do it, do it. 🤷‍♀️ To each their own, but I don’t think anything should be expected of anyone, everyone has a different opinion.

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Im a Christian but not a basic Christian if that makes since. Like i dont believe everything in the bible is relevant to todays world. I feel like all the things happening in todays world that's against the bible is happening for a reason. The basic from right and wrong i do believe though and i believe in God and Jesus. I beleive marriage isnt a goverment certificate i believe marriage is commintment to one another. I feel like paying money for a certificate then paying more money if one does not fullfill their side of the commitment is just a way for the government to get money. I will be getting married lawfully because my SO really wants to out as part of his culture but i believe we are married and when i made a commitment to be with him and let him take my virginity was we were married because i have kept my promise and have stayed with him with unconditional love.

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My husband and I were together for over four and a half years before we got married. We waited for sex and all other sexual encounters (like oral, manual, etc).
We didn't see each other naked or even in underwear unless you count swimsuits.
But dang as soon as we got to our honeymoon we were up all night long 😅
The first time may have been a little like "not sure what we're doing here" but aren't all first times? Because we love each other so much I think it made it way more special and intimate. I think knowing we had just pledged our lives and committed ourselves to one another in front of everyone made sex so beautiful. 
I highly recommend waiting for marriage. It simplifies things a LOT.
BUT to each their own and I don't condemn anyone for their life choices. My personal experience was just awesome. 😊

Married Christian women: Did you wait until marriage to have sex?

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