Scared to get attached

Hi ladies... I’m 22 weeks pregnant and since i became pregnant I’ve had a horrible fear of miscarriage or stillbirth. It’s my first pregnancy, and i feel like my fear is making me not be able to function in my everyday life. I’m so scared that i haven’t even talked to my baby yet.... everyone says to feel your bump and to talk to your baby but I’m so scared to lose him that I don’t even call him by his name. I feel absolutely horrible about it but I’m so scared something will happen and I’ll have to feel that heartbreak... if anyone has any similar feelings/ stories/ how to get over this fear I’d really appreciate it. I don’t know what to do anymore😔