Met my dr... I literally don’t know what to do

All I’ve done is the check ups... I feel like I’m missing something... my mom hasn’t talked to me since I got pregnant so I can’t ask her.. my Gmail is the only family member I talk too and she thinks this is weird..

Like it’s 2018.. what am I supposed to do?!

They also say he’s in heart surgery so he might not even be my delivery dr. So what am i supposed to just be comfortable with giving birth with anyone... I don’t think so