Ok glow fam that’s going to be long. Kindly help me with some logical practical thoughts.

So I have been ttc with no luck for a year now. I’ve recently graduated from medical school and I’ve been lucky enough in my career to start my residency program in Gyn/Ob right away.

Since it’ll be a lot hectic the rotations and calls are 30 hr long. Plus I have to leave home and shift to another city for this and my husband will complete his on going studies in the current city. I’ll be starting my first rotation in March. I want a baby so bad but now with all this I don’t think I can carry pregnancy with tough duties (if I get lucky enough to conceive) plus I won’t be able to get holidays for bd you know.

So it’s like either i have to keep trying till I am with my husband or I should stop ttc and try after 2 years. Because after 2 years my husband will shift to new city with me then.

I am so confused I know I have to choose one but it’s so difficult. You don’t get imto residency programs easily. And I don’t want to get pregnant late because I have these statistics stuck in my head that my increasing age will affect my fertility adversely 😕 (even though I know it’s not always the case)

What should I do? Any thoughts any words of advise will be helpful and calming for me. Thanks ❤️

Edit*

Thanks for the kind suggestion ladies ❤️

I am 25 and yeah I will discuss this in detail with hubby. But first I wanted to figure out what do I want and what can I handle.

Plus I come from a culture where people keep asking you about baby the minute you are married which sometimes makes me upset 😅