I’m finding it so hard to stay happy about my pregnancy and to be excited when it seems like EVERYONE around me is so sour about it. I got so few congratulations from family and friends, the most popular response to the news was “was it planned?” or “did you want them so close together?” First of all, they’ll be 20 months apart, that’s not THAT close, and second, my sister’s kids are even closer together and no one gave her shit for it? She was even the same age as me at the time. But everyone acts like they think I’m stupid for having another baby. Yeah it wasn’t planned, but I’m still so happy and blessed to be able to have another. I don’t get why no one can just be happy for me 😞 it sucks when the only people excited are me and my husband, and ONE of my friends. I just feel so alone this time.