Do you feel like asking your s/o to change one or two things about them is bad?

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Or are you just supposed to accept everything good and bad.

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Depends.  Change their personality? Good luck w that. No one can make someone change. Period.    Now, asking them to take over vacuuming as a chore to even up the list? Doable.

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On one hand I feel like partners should accept each other for who they are but also, we should all work at bettering ourselves. This can include correcting behaviors are aren’t good or trying to fine tune or get rid of toxic characteristics we may have. Everyone is a work in progress and we should work on learning and growing everyday to become better versions of ourselves.

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It depends on what they are. Like is it something reasonable to change like “don’t throw your socks on the floor please” or is it something about them like “I need you to laugh less like a weirdo”?

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Depends on what you’re asking them to change.

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Any negative behavior should be improved, or be attempted to improve. Like this “if you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me” mentality sucks so bad imo... like ok, sure we all have our negative traits but to refuse to grow and reach compromises with your SO is really childish. Life is all about growth and you both should be willing to nurture and push each other to be the best versions of yourselves.

Do you feel like asking your s/o to change one or two things about them is bad?

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