Please don't get into a relationship. I'm still hurting from a relationship where I thought the guy was over his ex. He basically convinced me, maybe trying to convince himself too, that he was over her. But 3 months after leaving a 3 year relationship, he was never over her. All he did was talk about her and how much she hurt him. And I didn't think anything of it, he talked to me and it was nice to be opened up to. But she treated him like shit and broke his heart. And now mine is broken because he jumped into a new relationship with me without fully healing from her. I'm the one stuck crying everyday, missing him everyday, craving him. It's not fair, I wish I could've met him when he finally did get over her. But I didn't. He told me he loved me and he wanted to be with me as long as I'd have him. But there was too many problems. Problems that shouldn't have happened if he had a fully healed heart. Because I was put second to a lot of things. But I fell for him, hard. In a short space of time we made amazing memories and I never thought I could care for someone as much as I did him. Still do in fact. I don't let people in for this reason but he found his was into my heart. And now I'm the one alone. Crying. Dreaming of him. Thinking that's him walking at the end of the road. That it's his car pulling outside my house. But it's not. It never is. It's almost 3 months since we split but I'm still hurting. I hate missing him. I hate that I still feel so much for him even tho it's been so long since we spoke. I should've realised he wasn't over her, or what she did to him, how badly she treated him. But I just thought he was cause he said he was. So please please don't get involved with someone if you're not over your ex, it just causes a whole new world of heartache. It's an awful heartache that you have to live with thinking that was what you had with them even real? Did he even feel anything for me? I don't know it just hurts. I can't even imagine a day where I don't feel pain like this