Ok so this might be hard to follow& sorry it’s so long.. so I’m a FTM and my due date is February 4th. My husband and I live out of state and the only family coming in for the birth is my parents and my in laws. My husband has asked for it to just be him and I in the delivery room first of all. Second of all my doctor said he would induce me on my due date the 4th.

Soo here is the issue my in laws come in on the 2nd and my parents come in on the 7th this was all planned before I knew I was going to get induced on the 4th.

my husband and I thought maybe the 8th would be good to induce but my doctor went and scheduled it to his schedule .

Now the in-laws leave on the 10th and my parents leave on the 14th. So that would give my in-laws less that 48 to see there first grandchild and give all the time to my parents if done on the 8th.

So my parents are now pissed that they won’t be here for the birth-on the 4th. But I’m also glad his parents will now get to spend some time with there granddaughter before leaving . So basically my parents are being super rude and selfish telling me to change up the dates just so they can be there but at the same time they don’t understand that we don’t want anyone in the room any ways. I’m just stressing out and trying to make everyone happy in this situation! I’m just hoping our little girl comes naturally and early so there is nothing we can do about the due date and it’s all in her hands😅