7 months post partum and I'm totally self critical about my body and have no confidence whatsoever. I haven't lost all my baby weight, I haven't felt this unsexy in years and husband says he's too tired. I don't even instigate for the fear that he will knock me back (he has done it before and I felt absolutely worthless) I know that he has "time" to himself and looks at gorgeous slim women and I can't compete with that.

It's been so long since we had sex or for him to show me that he is even remotely interested. He gives me cuddles and kisses but I want him so much but I'm just disappointed all the time that the passion has gone. I want to be that couple who can't keep their hands off each other or for their husband to fancy the pants of them and I know it changes when a baby is thrown into the mix but do couples not do it when they can fit it in?? Take that 5 min opportunity when the baby is asleep or gran is babysitting to appreciate eachother. I went through childbirth and my body has went through all sorts, so how come I'm the one wanting sex all the time and he doesn't!! The answer = I don't think I don't turn him on...