hurts when fingering???

Question

my bf has tried to finger me multiple times and i let him but it always hurts really bad so i ask him to stop. i'm also a virgin. any advice?? does it just hurt because i haven't had sex yet?

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I’m a virgin and I love it when my boyfriend fingers me, it does hurt but at the same time it feels good. It honestly depends on your preference, some people like things, and others don’t. It could also be how he’s doing it, if he’s going to fast or too rough. Or if your comfortable. Maybe try getting him to use one finger then going from there to see if it helps.

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Stop dating him if he won’t respect you enough to stop doing stuff you don’t like.

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It could hurt because of a bunch of things. You could have a tough hymen, he could be hitting your cervix, he could scratch your insides with his fingernails, he maybe too rough, not enough lubricant can lead to irritation and micro tears. Guys don’t have a vagina and don’t know what feels good to one or yours unless you tell them. Try, “it feels good when you....”

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I enjoy being fingered, but I shouldn’t be painful. Buy some lube, and use that as well as encourage him to try being slower. I’m sure it’ll help, if not, I’d ask your gyn next time you go and just stop for now.

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He is being too aggressive!  It's not a sport you win at.  Take your time rather than rushing it.  I agree being fingered.  Maybe it's just not your thing too.

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Also, most women don’t like fingering. Fingers are bony and uncomfortable. I’m definitely not a Virgin and I do NOT like being fingered. It’s uncomfortable and painful and pokey.
So if you don’t like something, do NOT let him do it.

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