When he's not the one

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Would any of you purposely ttc with a Man U know is not the one u want to be with forever for your own selfish reasons?  I will be 31 soon and I feel like my clock is ticking. Even though I despise him most of the time , we have been together 11 years and I want another baby .

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I would. I don't have to be with the man to have a baby. Especially if I had no kiddos yet. I would want one. I think it's about your comfort level and wet her you want to deal with him forever lol

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Are you saying the one your with isn't the one? You've been together for 11 years, time to decide.. Either stay with him and have a baby. Or leave him and fine the one you want.

Obviously you can have a child and it not be with the one, people do it all the time.

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I think that's not a great environment or mentality in which to bring another human being into this world.

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11 years, so you already have children with him? If so then I can understand wanting to have another child where the siblings have the same dad. I can get that. But is he OK with having another baby? 
I'm just assuming from your post of course, so if that's not the case then disregard my comment lol

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Don't do it you'll regret it if your not happy leave him and in time you will find someone els and bring a baby in the world with both party's loving each other

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Life is too short not to be happy. If you can say that you despise him most of the time he's not right for you. I was with someone for 5 years and realized it wasn't right and moved on. A year later I met and married the man of my dreams. I never would have been as happy  with my ex as I am with my husband. It's much easier to be a single mom to 1 and a lot less baggage to bring into a new relationship(Speaking from experience)

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It's pretty intimidating seeing how many people have viewed this lol 😬. I hope no one judges me, I'm just a hot emotional mess with AF late at night and I start reevaluating life. Lol #VENTOVER

When he's not the one

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