soo i always go down on my bf, and he rarely does it to me. he hasn’t went down on anybody but me before. and he told me that he doesn’t do it as much because he doesn’t want to mess up, or for it to be a bad experience for me. but he’s the only person i’ve ever been with, and i think he does it fine. and the first time i went down on him i was scared too and didn’t know what i was doing. how can i not necessarily force him to do it, but to be more confident doing it and do it more often?