If your rape/other was your first time having sex, do you count that as when you lost your virginity?

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My question might be confusing... I'm not sure how to word it exactly. What I mean is, for example, when people ask me when I lost my virginity, I don't say 10 years old when I was taken advantage of, I tell them 18, when I first CHOSE to have sex with another person. Even though technically I lost my virginity years earlier, I don't necessarily count that in my mind, because it wasn't my choice, if that makes sense. (I guess it's sort of like, physical virginity VS mental virginity?)

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Virginity is just a concept it’s not an actual thing tbh 
 I do not count it as losing your virginity because 1. They wanted power over you not sex and 2. You didn’t consent, therefor it’s not sex or losing your virginity, it’s rape 
There’s no such thing as non consensual sex, and you have to have sex to lose your virginity. The only sex there is is consensual sex

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I will say this a million times to whoever needs to hear it. 
Virginity is a social construct. 
If you would like to view yourself as a virgin until the time you consent,
then that's what you are.

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Meant to hit no!

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I put yes since I viewed it that way at the time bc I was a Christian. Now I know it is a social construct.

If your rape/other was your first time having sex, do you count that as when you lost your virginity?

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