Does anyone ever stayed with SO because you have a child rogether but you really dont want to be with them ?

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Nah. I don't settle. Life is too short. If I don't wanna be with someone I stop being with them. No sense doing anything else.  Can't raise a happy, healthy kid in an unhappy, unhealthy home, so why would I even try..?

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The child will not grow up and thank you they will feel like a burden and so guilty that u missed out on happiness all so mum n dad stayed under the same roof.

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My parents stayed together for us kids til my younger brother turned 16 and left school. We hated it because we knew they weren’t happy, they argued loads, my dad had numerous affairs and it made my mum extremely paranoid and untrusting. 
Please do not stay with someone for the kids. It wasn’t a happy household to grow up in.

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People do but they shouldn't.
Would you want your child to stay in a loveless relationship? I know I wouldn't want that for my child so why teach them that they should? 
Being a parent doesn't mean you can't have love.

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Temporarily, yes. My ex struggled with opiates. It took me a long time to understand that he would always lie, always sneak out, always prioritise pills/heroin over his daughter and I. 
I got to the point that I couldn't stand him and resented him so deeply for this, yet I still loved him and wanted to see him get better. I also had moved with him 300 miles from my family, so making the choice to leave meant loading up whatever could fit in my car and just... driving away.  It's a tough place to be. It's a weird place to be. 
In the long run I'm glad I only stayed for a year after our daughter was born. She is now almost 4 and has an amazing man who has stepped in and fully embraced being her daddy. She doesn't even remember my ex. He hasn't reached out to see her in 2 years.

Does anyone ever stayed with SO because you have a child rogether but you really dont want to be with them ?

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