Missed miscarriage - need advice

Jen

I found out yesterday at 13 week ultrasound that baby died at 11 weeks 3 days. I am just heartbroken, this is the second time this happened. The first time my body had already started bleeding before I found out. This time no cramping or bleeding...the doctor has given me option to allow natural miscarriage, which could take weeks, use medication or have doctor intervention (curette)

I am thinking about the medication but I am so hesitant to force it. Can anyone who has made that choice provide me some insight?

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