Me and my boyfriend have Been together 4 months now goin on 5, and last year in October we lost our first baby and since then he’s been so rude and disrespectful to me. He never opens up to me and he’s changed a lot. All we ever do is fight but the sex is amazing and that seems to be the only time we get along. I love him so much but I’m sick of the bullshit with him. We are always fighting and arguing. He doesn’t text me or calls me, I have to call him or text him. He doesn’t put in an effort at all. But when we’re together he’s sweet and loving but if I say the wrong thing it pisses him off. He always feels like he does nothing wrong and honestly I’m sick of his shit. Like just now he hung up on me yesterday and cut his phone off and I tried textin him and calling him and even come next day still nothing from him. I get on him about it and he feels like he did nothing wrong at all. So then he goes on to tell me he just wants to be left alone for the day. May I remind you I can barely get a word out of him half the time. He always playing his stupid game. He literally chose his game over me one time and I left and went home but I’m in the wrong? How does that even work?? Honestly I’m tired of crying over him and getting hurt. How you can sit up there and tell me you love me but don’t even put in an effort to check on me? Come see me? Like girls I literally have to beg for a foot rub or a back rub from him. I don’t know what to do at this point. Any advice is welcome and please be up front as possible no holding back.

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I’m 20 and he’s 21.