Hi ladies, I'm 18 weeks along and our appointment is next Tuesday to see the gender. Only, I want to find out the gender at the appointment and hubby wants to wait til Sunday Feb 3rd and have our pastor reveal it to us. It seems like a lot of this pregnancy is things he wants. I'll graduate from college in May being 8 months pregnant, but I'm only pregnant now because he didn't want to wait. I wanted to wait til after I graduated. But because of our age difference and the fact he's never had kids with his prior marriage, I gave in and we got pregnant. He's picky with names and I have to choose from the list he approves of not the ones I like. I want us to find out together at the appointment, but he doesn't want to know then. He wants to wait four days and have the pastor tell us.