My SIL and I were pregnant at the same time. I was having a baby boy and her twin boys. We were due the same month and week also. I lost my son at 20 weeks. My SIL had her twins January 4. My husband finally went to see the twins and then broke down. We’ve been ttc after AF came back. We’re going on 4 months now.I know 4 months isn’t long for trying but after loosing our son it has felt like an eternity. When we started ttc for my son we thought it would take 6 months but we got pregnant right away. I guess after what happened it just feels like it’s been forever to see those two pink lines again. I feel so heart broken for my husband and I see his pain every time I tell him it’s not the month.. hoping February is the month 🤞 i just want to ease his pain a little and give him a baby.