In need of assistance ladies. So here’s the scoop. For all of 2018 I’ve dealt with jumping from job to job, no money/unemployment insurance, and a struggle with the father of my kids as we pained through a relationship that was fading before my eyes. Once I finally ended things with him, my life actually started to straighten up. It wasn’t until about November or December but it did. Around this time I was passing my time with the good old tinder. I met guy #1. He was fun, but he wasn’t looking for a relationship and made that clear on day one. We messed around a bit but it didn’t last long because I realized that I was not the girl built for his kind of lifestyle and that’s ok. I moved onto guy #2. Around this time I found out that my kids dad started dating another girl so I kind of sabotaged myself because I was actually trying to hurry the process of getting close with this dude simply because my kids’ dad did with another girl. Boy was I wrong for that. He was the most disrespectful little boyman I met but I’m grateful that I met him so I can identify what I will not put up with. So now onto guy #3. Man oh man is he a man of many facets. I was actually ready to give up dating for this whole year so that I can continue focusing on me and my kids. But somehow he came around into my inbox and wow’d me. This guy has so many great characteristics about him and the more we talk, the more I catch feelings.

The dating this is not my forte so I’ve been on dating advice sites to help me control my emotions at the beginning of a relationship. We both feel like the other is making us change our minds about not wanting to be in a relationship. I like him a lot more that I had hoped and tbh it just feels so right.

I get a big ass grin whenever he calls or texts me. I think about him nonstop and from what I’m seeing, he’s really into me. Typically, I don’t tell others about the great things that are going on in relationships with myself and someone else because I tend to jinx myself and the situation but lately when I talk about him, things actually get better. Third time’s the charm.

At the moment we are still getting to know one another but being with him is starting to feel more and more like a great idea. He’s not like the men I’ve dated in the past and I can feel it exuding off of him anytime we talk. He soothes my mind and spirit and make me want to be pleasant for no reason. We’ve never had sex or have yet to talk about it but he turns me on i can’t stand it. I just don’t think that anytime soon is the time to talk about sex cuz once it goes there, it’s a wrap for me. Simply put, I just want to know as much as he is willing to tell me and vice versa before going down that road. Ladies:: any advice would be appreciated!