My dads in prison, has been for 14 years (he’s an amazing guy, it was a series of unfortunate events that led him there). He comes from money and gets out in one year (yay!). My mom and I work together at a home business and are unhappy and struggling. My mom and dad are not together but are both single and may want to give it another try after 20 years apart; they’ve remained great friends. My dad has 13.5 acres of property about 4 hours south of where we live now. He wants us to put a huge beautiful manufactured home on it. My mom has the credit and is ready to buy. We found the perfect home to fit us all, plus were planning to get a barn with horses (my moms DREAM). We have quads and dirt bikes so we can’t wait to have so much land. The problem is, my boyfriend. We’ve been together for 5 years and have a 10 month old son. He also has two kids here. One lives with us and the other we have on weekends. I haven’t even talked to him about this yet and I’m so stressed about it. I 10000% want to go. This has been a dream of mine. Already owning the land, our mortgage would be less than $1000, and my mom and dad said they would take care of it so I can finally be a stay at home mom and even have another baby. My boyfriends told me before he never wants to live down there (south part of our state) because the crime is so bad. But we’ll be 45 minutes from where it’s bad, and at least 20 minutes from town in a beautiful home. Advice? How do I even start this conversation? My boyfriends never met my dad but they talk often and get along great.