Alright, so quick question because I have no idea what to do this time 😂 My boyfriend has a tendency to ignore me when he’s mad at me, whatever the reason may be. He’ll ignore me for about a day and a half until I give in, confront him, and fix it. Even if he’s wrong.

So this time he’s mad at me over something super dumb. Someone put a note on his car telling him not to park in a certain space or he will get a ticket (everyone still parks there but he’s the only one who got a note). He thinks it’s the couple below us while I think it’s the police officer who lives above us. So he’s mad that I think it’s the police officer instead of agreeing with him 🤔

I don’t want to go to him this time because he has never, not even one time, approached me to reconcile any argument we have ever had. It’s always me fixing things. I feel like he doesn’t care, and he’d probably go forever without talking to me unless I say something first.

He’s even gotten into a disagreement with a family member and didn’t talk to them for 2 years until the family member confronted him first. Now they’re cool again.

Should I just give in and say something first like I always do? Or wait for him to come to me, because what if he doesn’t? Idk.