I’m so fucking annoyed so I’m going to rant:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years almost 8. July 2017 I took out my mirena and we always said if it happens it happens and we have a baby (Since we always talked about having a family. )

October 2018, we actually started talking about it even more, I was even questioning why I wasn’t getting pregnant since I had my mirena removed. My doctor suggested to have sex during ovulatiod days etc...p.s - I never was into checking my ovulation, or taking prenatal vitamins etc. But last month, I started to get worried thinking, damn it’s been over a year !

Crazy, once we started looking up prices to get fertility test done, I found out just this past weekend that I’m pregnant.

I’m excited but I don’t know how to fucking express it to him because it’s like he doesn’t care ! Mind you, he has a 11 year old son already so I don’t know if he’s just not showing he’s excited because he’s expected all this before but it’s pissing me off.

I haven’t told my family yet, and I don’t want to for awhile and I have no one to talk to. I tried talking to him and asking how does he feel any d he’ll say, “you already know how I feel.”

UGHHHH

For example, I got super excited about so free welcome baby boxes and I wanted to show him. I had like 4 bags full of free bottles, honest diapers, bibs, wipes, etc and he looked at me and said, “ Did you really get all this stuff....you’re a weirdo”

I got mad, stormed off and told him it was over. I sent him a long ass text about how he lied about wanting a family and now that we’re having one he’s acting like it doesn’t faze him. I explained to him how it fucking sucks that he isn’t excited. I don’t even feel comfortable feeling happy or excited without him looking at me like I’m being “extra”.

His response: I been acting normal you are upset at me because what im not all excited who cares if im not you are making that the problem really.... we’re not breaking up

Now that I’m home. We haven’t really talked. He called me on my way home from work and said we’re not breaking up...but if he’s making me

Feel this way already I know it’s gonna be worst. I haven’t told anyone expect you ladies, and it sucks not having the person I’m suppose to be with and having a baby with won’t express his feelings or concern mine

Have any of you ladies had this issue with your man just not receptive to anything baby related and/or didn’t come across excited ???? HELP