I have a friend who is a whole trimester ahead of me and we got to spend some time together yesterday. This may sound odd but I couldn't help but feel like she looked down on me or was feeling competitive with me.  She kept commenting on how she couldn't believe that I have already been feeling my baby move for a month now and how small my baby was compared to hers.  This is my second child and her first.  I was surprised to find this coming from her.   Anyone have any similar experiences or advice?