So prepare for a long story & a fucked up grammar. So recently I’ve seen my boyfriend for the 3 times (went to visit him at his duty station). We are in a long distance relationship and we was on and off on me moving to his duty station, we’ve been together for 8 months almost a year and I recently decided to move to his duty station and he was all for it. I told my whole entire family, my friends and etc. Today he has told me about what his mother said which was “what’s the rush”. So now he’s second guessing everything and I’m so lost and confused and wanna cry low key because I was so excited and I told my family already and now everything changed again. He feels like we are rushing and junk but who cares if it’s right take the leap of faith... right? But I don’t ever nor pressure him into doing anything that he doesn’t feel too sure on you know. So I’m really lost I’m really not trying to think about it. We did agree on me finishing college and then come and move up where he is which I’ll graduate in 2021 so 2 years from now. My happiness is where he is and not home, he agrees with his mother that since I’ve visit him and had sex & shit my emotions are high as hell right now and I’m making decisions based off my emotions.... I don’t think so it’s just that long distance is very hard right now and I don’t know how long can I take it cause it can get very frustrating... I’m really lost and don’t know what to do nor what to think.