Can I just vent for a second !

Everything DH does is pissing me off , he's being so hard to deal with right now , he complains if I clean the house , but if I sit down and relax he complains . I'm sorry but when you have a one year old and a four year old you have to stay on it or it'll be a disaster within a matter of minutes . I would LOVE TO BE ABLE TO SIT DOWN AND RELAX . Then he blames it on my hormones , and yes I am hormonal but the lack of help is only making it worse . I'm a stay at home mom .. And he has this mind set that when he's off that I shouldn't do anything .. But then I I do try and relax he makes me feel worthless .. I'm so done with it !!!