Abortion or not?

Question

I’m just about to turn 19 and I’m 2 months pregnant. 
My boyfriend has said the best thing to do is to get an abortion... so I’ve booked one for 2 weeks.
I don’t want an abortion but I worry what my family will say and if it will be a struggle financially? 
I work full time and my boyfriend has a house and a good job too. 
I don’t know what to do, I don’t think I can go through with an abortion !! :(

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If you don’t think you can do it the PLEASE don’t. I would hate for you to regret that. Also, if he doesn’t want the baby and you do then leave him. Do what’s best for your baby because you’re a mommy now! I know it’s hard, I’m 21 and single 16 weeks pregnant with my baby boy. I promise it’s a love like no other.

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Listen.... this is your child... I wanted to have an abortion too but changed my mind and now I look at my 11 y/o son and cry for even thinking that way! Trust me.... the fact that you’re questioning yourself about it is a pure sign that you don’t want it, you’re not going to do it! My sister had an abortion and she lost her mind after it, there not one day that she doesn’t cry and blames herself for doing that and trust me... that pain never goes away. I don’t know how religious you are if at all but everything happens for a reason. Pray on it... god doesn’t give us more than we can handle. There ALWAYS help out there for pregnant girls/ single mothers. Finances are not an excuse, they would be if you you weren’t pregnant and thinking of having a baby... but you’re baby is here already. A man is just a man but your child... trust me, it’s the most PUREST unconditional love there will ever be! Do the right thing! And no I’m not against abortion... I believe that girls that are raped or that have a mental disability or in life threatening danger then that’s an excuse.

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10 weeks is pretty far along w the development.   Dont let anyone pressure you into it.  Why have you waited so long, also, to consider this?

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You sound like you don’t want to do it so don’t...you can always give the baby up for adoption there are lots of couples who would love your child like their own and who’d be able to support it financially

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Smh... it’s not the baby’s fault your boyfriend isn’t ready to take responsibility for his actions. If he doesn’t want to be a part of the baby’s life then leave him.

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Please don’t have one if you don’t want one.

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Pleaseeeeee do not get an abortion just because of him. Please don’t. There will be very bad regret

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My friend felt forced into one and regrets it EVERY DAY.

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Do not get forced into something like that. It's a baby

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If you don’t want to do it don’t do it. Talk to your family about it I bet they are more understanding than you would think. I am all for woman’s rights, but if the woman is coerced into doing it and doesn’t want to, then that’s different.

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