I’m almost 7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend is being verbally abusive. He’s been great when he found out I was pregnant. But Last night I woke up to him putting his dick in me and it scared me cause I wasn’t even awake which he has never done this before. today, when he woke up for work I thought he smelt good so I asked him if he was wearing his cologne and he said no and I just thought he smelt really good to just be wearing deodorant and it wasn’t like I was starting anything I was literally smiling and laughing when I said it. Then he started being shitty so when he left for work I sent is everything okay? I love you❤️ then he replied with saying how he can’t wear cologne without me bitching at him and how I can wear perfume. Which I didn’t say anything about him not being able to wear cologne. Then he said the guys were wanting to go to twin peaks which I’m not okay with because if you have a girlfriend and a baby on the way that’s just disrespectful to be lusting over another women. So he said I treated him like he’s my bitch. Then he said I won’t let him do anything like go to water parks or to the trampoline park which I have let him before but he hasn’t even asked to do that stuff in a long time so I don’t understand how this plays a role in it if he never even brings up going. But I think he’s too old for that stuff anyways (almost 19) then said I don’t trust him because I go to the grocery store with him?? Like obviously I’m gonna go especially if I’m not doing anything and that way I get the right stuff. He goes to the fitness center to work out at around 7:30pm each night. And he’s been calling me a stupid B**** and all kinds of things and said he’s on the verge of moving my stuff out. I don’t understand where all this is coming from. Which last night he accidentally broke a ceramic bowl my grandma gave me so I was upset about that. But he said I was treating him like shit and that it wasn’t his fault which I understand that he didn’t mean to but I was still upset cause it was special to me. He thinks every time I get upset that I treat him like shit because I don’t say much mainly because I don’t even know what to say. He calls me a pussy and that I get upset about everything. I don’t know what to do I know all of this is dumb stuff to be fighting about and I’ve tried to tell him it’s not worth it but he’s been blowing everything out of proportion and every fight gets turned around to a fight about trust when the original fight had nothing to do with that. He even said last night that this baby is bringing us closer than we’ve ever been. I just don’t know how all of that changed so fast. Any advice?

Valerie- I wasn’t saying that him going to the gym is a problem. He said he needs his alone time and stuff and I was using the gym as an example of that as in he does have alone time which he gets back from work at 4ish and I don’t get back until 6 sometimes 7. He has a lot of alone time so I was unsure of where this was all coming from.