My last heartbreak I cried and cried. I then realized that he just wasn't the one for me I ignored all of the signs that he wasn't and enjoyed the happiness until He left me for another woman. I then started to brainstorm what qualities in him and others that I dated,that I liked or things that I want different, that I want in my future husband, and constructed a list of the qualities. I just happened to be cleaning today and came across that list. ( a year later)  I read it, and every single quality on that list matches my boyfriend. He's everything that I wanted, and he says that I am too. I'm gonna let him read that list when he comes in from work. Something else to add and confirm just why it never worked with anyone else, and why I love him so much.