Have you ever just completely lost it and started sobbing hysterically when you find out a coworker or a friend is pregnant? I told a close friend that I broke down when this girl made her announcement and she pretty much mocked me and said I was being ridiculous. That the girl was getting older and she needed to have them now. It's not that I'm not happy for them but it's just a constant reminder of how many options we have tried that were unsuccessful to get pregnant. I told her that and her reply was well I already waited for another girl to have one I'm not waiting for you in a tone that said you're pretty much going to have to get over it. I just thought it was insensitive and rude knowing the struggle we are having.