TTC and keeping quiet

Maggie

Hello ladies... I am some what new.. I joined the beginning of January.. My cycle was 16 days LATE I was nervous and excited at the same time being I'm 35 and that would have been #3 for me but #1 for my boo... Well I told a few people that I was late and shouldn't have....

😢 no I wasnt preggo

What I'm getting at is... I know we be very excited to tell someone about the good news... I have 3 people that I have told this very news to.. The first young lady had 3 or 4 MC the last time she got preggo she stuck it on the book.. I unboxed her and her siblings and told them "people that say they excited or praying for you is not always true.. u have people out there that will pray again what ur trying to birth.. Take the post down and once u past the 1st trimester if u feel like telling, then do so. The first is always hard" She deleted the post and let me say I have a 3 year old God daughter that is just as beautiful as ever...

The second lady I told she had just had a MC and she was very upset... I told her the same... When she stuck the news on fb she was getting ready for her reveal shower... Her baby is now 8 months old... I'm just trying to help out in anyway I can.. When it says fertile days get to humping... Dont always jump up and go to the bathroom... Lay there... tell him u tired.. ur legs weak... something... MAKE SURE U GET IT IN THE DAY BEFORE OV DAY... DO NOT GET UP... If u can keep it between u and ur hubby, bad, boo, etc as long as u can... Wait til after 1st trimester.. AND AM TEAM 30'S TTC... YALL GOT THIS... I AM PRAYING FOR U ALL....