A strip club and got a lap dance and lied about it?

My bf told me he had a business dinner and meeting then head to a late night cafe to network with some business partners. We were txtng back and fourth throughout the night then after midnight he all of a sudden disappeared. He wasn’t txtng me back I started blowing his phone up until 4am he still ddnt pick up. At some point my calls were getting forward to voicemail. I went to his house in the morning to confront him. He was knocked out & threw up all over his room it was disgusting I started yelling at him to get up and clean this mess up. He said he got so drunk lastnight he ddnt even look at his phone nomore and he got dropped off early around 12am and knocked out . (Lie)

2 weeks later I find out he wasn’t at a business meeting him and his business partners who are married and in relationships also all went to a strip club and were getting lap dances all night and drinking in there and putting a thumbs up to eachother while getting it. I’m so disgusted. In the past he would openly say he went with his boys to a strip club n I was ok with it I would jst say smart remarks like eww go wash ur hands before u get in th bed with me and we laugh it off but over th years we have had trust issues and he knows I wouldn’t be ok with this .. it’s probably why he lied about it he knew I would go ballistic!

I don’t want to talk to him or see him ever again... it seems so easy for him to lie about anything and he lies so confidently! I feel so disrespected I don’t want to end what we have we have come such a long way n I don’t want this to end it but I just don’t feel good anymore this brings on more trust issues than we already have going I’d rather leave and not deal with the extra stress.

What would u do? Thoughts opinions and advice would be greatly appreciated I also don’t know if I should confront him over the phone or in person what should I do? And chances are I know he’s going to lie again he never has the balls to speak the truth

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