My husband is over weight. Not necessarily morbidly obese, but pushing 360+. Of course, I don't care that his is overweight (I mean, I am too but I have no medical problems as of yet, which is why I feel like this is so important. So I don't develope them.) however he has high blood pressure and cholesterol. His father passed away of heart attack at 41 and his grandfather at 51. Both overweight. Both had high blood pressure and other heart conditions. Death of heart disease runs in his family.

I'm so scared I'm going to lose my husband from the "family curse" as I call it.

I've tried diets and diets and diets, but nothing works. I've lost 30lbs last year and he hasn't lost anything. I'm worried he is sneaking food at work and that's why it's not working :( Not only this, he doesn't take his medications until I practically force them down his throat. He seems to have this "Oh, that won't happen to ME" type attitude about it all

How can I make him care about his future, our future? I don't want to lose him...