My mother in law clearly has a favorite child which is my husband. So she treats me, my husband, me and our kids better than her other kids and grans kids. She buys us stuff and then makes comments about how she’s not going to buy it for her son and daughter in law because she doesn’t see them as a family the way she sees us as one. She goes all out to spoil our kids and makes uncomfortable comments about her daughter in front of me. She’s made comments about how it’s nasty that she has ear gauges and I mentioned how I actually want them then she told me “that’s ok. It’d look good on you” I really want to ask her to stop. It makes me feel weird and awkward