My husband has decided he wants to go full time army (he’s taking a test soon to decide which career to take) we have officially decided we want to wait until after basic training and ait to try for a baby, I guess my question or I hope to figure out is if anyone who has recently joined or has been through this experience of trying for a baby after basic and ait, is happy with their decision and how it went for them(housing, money, being around family, how much your s.o was involved and so on)