My husband went to his first appointment today with my midwife. I’ve been seeing my midwife since October at 8weeks, it’s January and I’m almost 25 weeks. He’s gone to my ultrasounds but that’s it. This is the first appointment he’s gone to with my midwife and he had the nerve to say I’ve been “climbing on things” when I haven’t climbed on anything since November and the only reason I did was because I had to get my mom down because she can fall at any moment and she’s stubborn as hell and I told people she was on the roof and no one moved so what was I supposed to do, watch her fall?🙄 as soon as my balance had been acting up, I haven’t done anything. Keep in mind, my house is like maybe 10 feet off the ground if that’s helpful at all🤦‍♀️ I’m not even sure if I was in my second trimester at the time or not... ughhh.... I hope this doesn’t cause any fucking issues😭

Edit: My husband is a “worry wort” he’s always worried about something. I’m only worried that my midwife will think I’m not being safe with my child and possibly call cps. She said not to do it obviously since pregnant women have balance issues and I obviously flipped on him when he said something without even thinking. By that I mean I quickly looked over at him and was like what the hell. He claims he thought I was climbing on something inside our house recently which I wasn’t because I’m not going to be stupid since I’ve started having issues with my balance randomly. Also, if he has an issue with the things I do, he should talk to me, not a mandatory reporter. Sorry if I’m so upset and worried, I dealt with cps as a child because they just wanted to attack my family and I have serious ptsd from being removed from my home for months and the thought of my child being taken away from me at any point at all, scares the living shit out of me.