I'm a first time mom, so everything was so new to me.

- Through out my whole pregnancy my doctor was pushing for me to be induced, then they were saying she was going to be born about 9 or 10 lbs and wanted to do a c-section. I persisted on going natural.

Monday December 2nd,

-i go to my doctors appointment, and my doctor wanted to check my cervix and she goes digging in there like shes trying to get the giblets out of the Thanksgiving turkey.! She said I was a little over 1cm. when I got home I had a little blood, which my mom said was normal.

-later that night I felt some cramping, like period cramping. Everyone told me contractions were through out your whole abdomen so I didnt think to much of it.

-i had cramping all through out Tuesday, and Wednesday.

-thursday, December 6th at almost exactly 12am

-i get a horrible cramp that wakes me out of my sleep, I get these all through out the night about 20 minutes apart. Finally I wake up at 9am and the cramps are so bad they are stopping me in my tracks.

- dad left because he went to go see his other kids with his exwife (which is fine, my due date was the 12th)

-around 1030am I go to get into the shower because I was gonna go grocery shopping and feel a little stream, of what I thought was pee, go down my leg.

-getting concerned I called my mom and told her what was going on, she gets so excited and yells "youre in labor" I then hear her co workers shouting in the back ground. My mom rushed back to her house and waiting for me there.

-i then called my boyfriend to tell him I think I'm in labor, I'm going to the hospital to get checked and he said he was goi ng to find someone to watch his other kids because his exwife was out.

-1200pm I get checked in and the nurse told me i was 4cm dilated,

-1220pm she comes back with my wrist band and checks me again, I'm now 5cm dilated. She says I'm having a baby today. My mom is so excited shes texting the whole family

-1250pm I text my boyfriend and tell him we are having a baby today. By this time contractions were 5-10 minutes apart and I'm still able to breath my way through them.

-225pm my boyfriend texts me saying he's found someone to watch the kids and he's going back to our house to let our dog out and make sure she has food and water.

Then asks me if he can take a shower. I told him I was 6cm dilated and they were going to break my water at 400pm.

-i dont hear from my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half hours. Then he texts me at

-437pm saying he's letting our dog out and then hes gonna get gas and be on his way, and told me to wait for him to get there. (We live an hr away from the hospital I had the baby at.)

-no word or sign of him

-600pm i was dilated to a 8 and texted my boyfriend and told him they broke my water. He then tells me "I JUST LEFT THE HOUSE.! You need to wait for me." My mom was with me through all of this, she texted him and said "wait for you.? You knew all day that you were having a baby today, you miss this that's on you.! There is no "wait for me" shit this isn't about YOU.! F*** OFF.!" (And I quote)

-620 doctor comes in and tells me "it's time to push.!"

-651pm December 6th, 2018 my little Allison Pearl is born. Weighing only SEVEN LBS exactly (7, after the doctor swore she was gonna be 9) and 20 inches long.

Long story short her dad missed her birth, and me and my mom got this experience all to our selfs💗 he knows I'm still mad and hurt to this day by him missing our daughters birth. But like my mom said that's his fault and it should eat him up, because he would always rant about how he was at every doctors appointment, and every birth of his kids. (My daughter makes number 5) but he missed hers.

Once he finally showed up🙃😒