Back labor?

rj

I believe im having back labor... Im 40+2 and as of 2 days ago i was 0cm dilated 50% thinned out. Since last night ive had horrible back pain all day long and when i finally lay down it never really fully goes away but every 5-7 minutes it gets really really intense and terribly painful and lasts around 45 seconds.... its been like that for the past 3 hours now...i mean its nearly unbearable......just wondering if i should wait a little longer and try to rest or what? Its 1:30 am so i really dont want to drink lots of water because i already constantly have to pee and i already drink 100+ oz a day. Ive tried tylenol and laying down....didnt help at all...i also don't want to wake up my fiance to go to the hospital if its nothing because he has to work at 7 am...but im in alotttt of pain.....