I need advice from someone! My boyfriend has been fb messaging his ex-gf behind my back. Me and him has been together 1.5 yrs. when we first started dating one of his other exs had been texting him. He told me about it and I trusted him. But then he kept talking to her behind my back & deleting messages. They talked for about a month and then he told me he was sorry and he understood why I was mad and they haven't talked since. Everything has been great between us since then until about 3 weeks ago his OTHER ex "accidentally" fb messaged him. They started talking and apologized for what they had done to each other. He then told her she had a beautiful baby, which earlier he had told me it was ugly and he hated her. Then they continued talking and are still talking. I went through his phone one night while he was asleep and read that they had been talking bad about me, calling me a gold-digger because I wouldn't pay rent, he said she was different from me and his other exs because he "actually liked her", and when she first messaged her he said her accidental messages always come when he needed something to brighten his day. He's been talking to her for 3 weeks behind my back. He told me she messaged him about how to get her car fixed and that was all. Also, last week he decided he was going to break up with me because he thought he was holding me back. He had messaged some girl asking to get drinks after work one day every though we were still together. I confronted him about snooping because I felt so guilty and he never apologized and got mad. He has a big temper and won't talk about it. He just threatens to kick me out & tell me I should just leave him if I don't like it. I love him to death and I desperately need advice. My last resort is to break up.