Literally just texted this to my man at 12:30 am while he sleeps.

I will spell it out for you because you cannot read my mind. I need you to take control. I want you to want me. I want you to grab me, pull my hair, throw me on the couch(baby has bed, I'll start to move her soon), bend me over. I want you to be in control. This will also reflect in my daily life, giving up control...will be so erotic for me. Life is too short to not live our happiest lives. I want you to be comfortable with this. You might love it too....idk. but you can let me know what you want, what fantasies you have. I want to fulfill each other's needs. ❤️❤️

**We've been together 6 1/2 years, need to relight that flame. **