My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 years, recently I found messages from a girl that he dated in high school. Funny thing, he gave me his iPad to use for school since I don’t have a laptop and he didn’t realize that his phone was still synced to it. Of course the thing kept going off because it was me and him messaging but at first I was confused on why it was going off so I checked it and realized it was just me and him. The. I saw them... the messages between them you know some of them were harmless talking about school and life But then some of them were like “good night love you❤️” they had even talked on the phone...

Here is one of the messages. He goes out of his way to text her and talk to her most of the messages. I talked to him and he isn’t lie to me about them, he told me it was his ex and she texted him first and it shows that she did, but his excuse...

” we were fighting a lot during that time and I wasn’t thinking I serious wasn’t I was just happy to talk to someone who I wouldn’t get into an argument with”

And of course I told him that doesn’t justify anything and this is honestly the first thing he has done anything that I know of. but again I told told him once is a mistake second time it’s a choice and have him another chance. He promised me nothing like this would happen again, I had him block her number and delete the messages right after I took pictures of all of them on his iPad.

His family is going through a rough patch rat now so I asked him, if I didn’t find out would he have ever told me. Of course he did the “after every settled down” excuse. I told him I’m hurt.angry,disappointed, and my trust for him has been faded away.

So of course I messaged her asking her if she knew he had a girlfriend and she said she thought me and him had broken up because he said we were fighting and it might not work out because of how bad it was. I was even more pissed I told him if he at least would have said I have a girlfriend and yes we are fighting but things will get better. It wouldn’t have made the situation better at least he told her he made the mistake of keeping in touch with her. Which I know I shouldn’t have given him another chance but again he hasn’t done anything like this...but now it has been about 2 days and he is acting like nothing is wrong...I’m still here hurt and it doesn’t seem to fade him...

What do I do...I don’t have any girl friends so I really need some help here